Kutanthauzira kwa loto la kavalidwe kaukwati kwa wokwatiwa ndi Ibn Sirin, ndi chovala chofiira chaukwati m'maloto, ndi kutanthauzira kwa maloto ovala chovala chaukwati ndikuchivula.

Maloto a kavalidwe kaukwati ndi amodzi mwa maloto omwe atsikana amakhala nawo nthawi zambiri, ndipo malotowa amasonyeza kuti akufuna kufulumizitsa ukwati, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti aziganizira nthawi zonse za nkhaniyi, motero chifaniziro cha diresi laukwati lomwe akuyembekezera kuvala likuwonekera. m'maloto, ndipo lero tiphunzira za kutanthauzira kwa masomphenyawo kuchokera kumalingaliro a akatswiri omasulira maloto Ndi maloto monga Nabulsi, Ibn Sirin ndi ena.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza kavalidwe kaukwati

Masomphenyawa ndi amodzi mwa masomphenya okongola kwambiri omwe angayendere atsikana m'maloto awo, ndipo ali ndi zizindikiro zambiri:

• Ngati mtsikana akuwona kuti chovala chake choyera chachitali chimamukongoletsa m'maloto ake, ndiye kuti ali ndi mbiri yabwino pakati pa anthu, ndipo watsala pang'ono kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene adasankha kuti akhale bwenzi lake m'moyo.
• Masomphenya ake a kavalidwe kameneka angasonyeze kuti akuyembekezera uthenga wosangalatsa kuchokera kwa bwenzi lakale kapena munthu wokondedwa wake yemwe wakhala kutali naye kwa zaka zambiri.
• Ndipo ngati mtsikanayo akukumana ndi mavuto ndi bwenzi lake, ndiye kuti kumuwona ndi umboni wakuti wathetsa mavuto onsewa, ndipo amasangalala ndi kudekha ndi bwenzi lake panthawi ya chinkhoswe.
• Pankhani ya kumuona atavala diresi ili pamalo otakasuka ngati chipululu, mwachitsanzo, akuvutika ndi kusowa kwamalingaliro pakati pa iye ndi bwenzi lake, ndipo angakhale ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuti asamalize ukwatiwu, ndipo zikatero ayenera. ganizirani mozama ndi dala musanapange chisankho chosiyana, ndipo ndi bwino kuti Afunsane ndi akuluakulu komanso odziwa zambiri kuposa iye. 

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza diresi laukwati kwa wokwatiwa ndi Ibn Sirin

Masomphenyawa, kuchokera kumaganizo a Ibn Sirin, katswiri wodziwika kwambiri wa kutanthauzira maloto, amasonyeza kuti mtsikanayo amasangalala ndi mtendere wamaganizo komanso chitonthozo mu chiyanjano, komanso kuti amavomereza kwambiri munthu uyu ndipo akufuna kufulumizitsa ukwati wake. kwa iye, popeza ali ndi chidaliro cha chisangalalo chomwe adzapeza ndi iye.

Koma ngati akuwona kuti akuwoneka wachisoni pamene akuwona chovalachi m'maloto ake, ndiye kuti sakufuna kugwirizana nacho, ndipo sakhala ndi maganizo omwewo, ndipo kumverera uku kungakhale kumulamulira posachedwapa chifukwa cha zofunikira. kusiyana pakati pawo, ndipo msungwanayo sayenera kutsogozedwa ndi malingaliro ofulumira omwe amatha kutha ndi kutha kwa zifukwa zawo Ndikuyesera kuthana ndi vutoli poyamba, ndiyeno kuyesa momwe akumvera pa nthawi yamtendere wamaganizo pakati pawo, ndipo pambuyo pake iye akuyesera kuthetsa vutoli. akhoza kusankha kupitiriza kapena kupatukana.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza chovala choyera

Kuwona mtsikana wokwatiwa kumasonyeza chisangalalo chimene ali nacho ndi bwenzi lake, koma ngati mtsikanayo adziwona atavala chovala choyera ndipo bwenzi lake palibe pafupi naye, ukhoza kukhala umboni wakuti chisangalalo chake muukwati wake sichidzatha, ndipo pamenepo. padzakhala zosokoneza zina zomwe zimasokoneza moyo wake pambuyo pake.

Masomphenya ake a kavalidwe koyera ndi chisonyezero cha chikhumbo chake chofuna kuthetsa ukwati ndi munthu amene adamtomera, koma ngati zolakwika zina ziwoneka mu chovalachi, zikhoza kusonyeza vuto mu ubale wawo ndipo ukwati wachedwa.

Msungwanayo akawona kuti chovala chake chazimiririka ndipo osapeza chizindikiro, ndiye kuti pali chinyengo chomwe amakumana nacho kuchokera kwa bwenzi lake, ndipo akhoza kumusiya ndikuphwanya chinkhoswe chake, zomwe zimamupangitsa mtsikanayo kukhala ndi chibwenzi. mavuto aakulu a maganizo, makamaka ngati iye ali ndi maganizo okhudzidwa ndi iye ndipo wapanga tsogolo lake ndi iye, ndipo akatswiri a kutanthauzira amalangiza pakutero kuti asatalikitse chisoni chake ndikuchigonjetsa mwamsanga. Ndithudi kuli bwino kusiyana ndi kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene palibe mgwirizano, ndipo kuthetsa chibwenzi n’kosavuta kwa mtsikanayo kusiyana ndi kusudzulana pambuyo pake.

Chovala choyera ndi choyera, koma pali kadontho kamtundu wakuda kosonyeza kuti ali ndi chidani china kwa ena, ndipo udani ungakhalepo chifukwa cha nsanje ya mnzake wamkazi amene amaona kuti ndi wokongola kapena wofunika kuposa iye. .chimene Mulungu anamdalitsa iye.

Tsamba lapadera la Aigupto lomwe limaphatikizapo gulu la omasulira akuluakulu a maloto ndi masomphenya m'mayiko achiarabu.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto ovala chovala chaukwati kwa okwatirana

• Masomphenyawa akuimira ubwino wa mtsikanayo ndi chiyero cha bedi lake.Koma ngati akuwona kuti akumva chimwemwe pamene akuvala m'maloto ake, ndiye kuti akukwatira posachedwa, ndipo bwenzi lake limamubweretsera zambiri. za chikondi ndi malonjezo achimwemwe.
• Koma ngati mtsikanayo avula chovalachi, chikhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha kuthetsedwa kwa chinkhoswe ndi kulephera kumaliza ukwati pazifukwa zokhudzana ndi makhalidwe a bwenzi.
• Ngati mtsikanayo aona kuti chovala chake chatayika ndipo sanachipeze, n’zosakayikitsa kuti angakumane ndi zosokoneza m’banja lake, ndipo zimenezi zingachititse kuti mkwatiyo akane ndi kuthetsa chibwenzicho.
• Kutanthauzira kwa maloto ovala chovala choyera kwa bwenzi kumasonyeza makhalidwe ake abwino, ndipo ngati adawona bwenzi lake m'maloto akuwonetsa zizindikiro za chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo, ndiye kuti kumuwona ndi umboni wakuti adzasangalala ndi chitonthozo chokhala ndi mwamuna uyu komanso adzamchitira chimene chidzakondweretsa Mulungu.

Chovala chofiira chaukwati m'maloto kwa bwenzi

Mtundu wofiira wa zovala zokhala ndi mbendera ndi umboni wa kupsa mtima ndi kuyaka moto pakati pa mtsikanayo ndi bwenzi lake, komanso zimasonyeza kuti alonjezana kuti asangalatse wina ndi mnzake.

Kuti mtsikana azivala mtundu umenewu pa tsiku la ukwati wake n’kumacheza ndi anzake, zimasonyeza kuti pali anthu amene amamuchitira nsanje n’kumamufunira zoipa, koma n’kuthekanso kuti angakumane ndi zosokoneza zimene zingawononge ubale wake ndi iye. bwenzi.

Kuona diresi laukwati la mtundu umenewu ndi chizindikiro chakuti mtsikanayo ankalakalaka kale kuti azigwirizana ndi mnyamata ameneyu, ndipo zofuna zake zakwaniritsidwa ndipo ukwati wake ndi iye uchitika posachedwa.” Chimodzimodzinso.

Zina mwa zisonyezo zoipa zomwe masomphenyawo angakhale nawo ndi ngati chovalachi chikuwoneka chachifupi, chifukwa ndi chisonyezo chakuti pali kuchepa mu chipembedzo cha mnyamata amene ali pachibwenzi, choncho moyo wake ndi iye mtsogolomu udzakhala. wosokonezedwa ndi mikangano yambiri chifukwa cha khalidwe lake ndi makhalidwe omwe adzawonekere monga momwe alili pambuyo pa ukwati.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza kuvina mu diresi laukwati

Pali matanthauzo angapo a masomphenyawa:

Mtsikana akaona kuti akuvina mosangalala paukwati wake, ndiye kuti adzakhaladi ndi chimwemwe chimenechi m’tsogolo, ndipo zinanenedwanso kuti moyo wake wa m’tsogolo udzasintha kwambiri, ndipo posachedwapa akhoza kuchoka kunyumba ya bambo ake n’kupita kwa mwamuna wake. nyumba, zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala mulingo wabwinoko.

Koma ngati anali kuvina ndi anzake popanda kukhalapo kwa mwamuna wake, kungakhale chizindikiro cha kulephereka kwa unansi umenewu kuyambira pachiyambi, ndipo ayenera kuganiza mosamala asanamalize chinkhoswe ndi kuloŵa m’gawo la ukwati.

Zinanenedwanso kuti oimba ndi kuvina m'maloto ndi umboni wa kudzikundikira nkhawa ndi chisoni, ndipo iye watsala pang'ono kudutsa gawo lovuta m'moyo wake lomwe lingathe kuchitira umboni zolephera zina, ndipo mtsikanayo, ataona masomphenyawa. , ayenera kusamala ndi anthu omwe ali nawo pafupi ndikuyesera kupanga lingaliro lomaliza ponena za bwenzi lake komanso ngati akuumirira Kumaliza chibwenzi chake, kapena ali ndi chikhumbo chosiyana.

Ndinalota nditavala chovala choyera ndili wosakwatiwa, ndiye kumasulira kwake ndi chiyani?

Zovala zoyera kawirikawiri ndi madiresi makamaka m'maloto a atsikana zimasonyeza kuti anthu amawakonda chifukwa cha chiyero ndi chiyero chomwe chimadziwika ndi umunthu wawo.

Wamasomphenya, ngati sali pachibwenzi, akhoza kulowa muubwenzi watsopano wamaganizo ndi munthu wolemekezeka, koma ayenera kukhala ndi mgwirizano wamaganizo ndi mgwirizano wovomerezeka kuti akwaniritse chimwemwe chake m'njira yoyenera, koma ngati akugwira ntchito zenizeni. , ndiye tsiku la mgwirizano waukwati ndi ukwati wake likuyandikira, ndipo chovalacho ndi umboni wa chimwemwe chomwe chikumuyembekezera.

Ngati mtsikana aona kuti chovalacho chikuwoneka ngati chatha kapena chakale, ndiye kuti akuvutika maganizo kwambiri ndi banja lake chifukwa chosafuna kukwatiwa, zomwe zingamupangitse kuvomerezana ndi mnyamata wosayenera kuti angokondweretsa banja lake. , ndipo kuona kwake chovala chakale ndi umboni wa moyo womvetsa chisoni umene akukhala naye m'tsogolomu, ndipo ndi bwino kuti mtsikanayo alankhule momasuka ndi makolo ake ndikuyesera kumutsimikizira maganizo ake.

Chovala chaukwati chofiira m'maloto

• Zinanenedwa kuti kumuwona m'maloto za atsikana ndi umboni wa chisangalalo chapafupi ndi chisangalalo. Ngati akuvutika ndi kuchedwa m’banja, ndiye kuti mnyamata amene ali ndi makhalidwe abwino ndiponso wodziwika pakati pa anthu chifukwa cha mbiri yake yabwino adzabwera kudzamufunsira.
• Ngati mtsikanayo adavala chovala chachifupi, kenako nkumuona atanyamula zinthu zomwe sizili bwino kwa iye, ndiye kuti akhoza kukhala wotayirira mwaufulu wa Mulungu kwa iye ndi kusakwaniritsa zomwe Mulungu (Wamphamvu zonse) adamulamula kuchita.
• Kumuwona m'maloto a mkazi kungakhale chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi ulemu wa mwamuna wake kwa iye, komanso kuti salephera kumusamalira.
• Kavalidwe kautali ndi umboni wa kubisala ndi chiyero chomwe amayi ambiri amasangalala nacho, makamaka akazi osakwatiwa.

Chovala chakuda chaukwati m'maloto

• Masomphenya a m’maloto a mtsikana angatanthauze kuzunzika ndi nkhawa zomwe akukumana nazo chifukwa cha kulephera kupeza munthu woyenera mpaka pano, ndipo sayenera kukhala wachisoni mwanjira iliyonse, chifukwa zinthu zimenezi zimachokera ku chifuniro cha Mulungu ndi nzeru zake.
• Mtsikanayo amatha kuona kuti ngakhale atavala zakuda paukwati, amakhala wokondwa komanso wokondwa, popeza ndi m'modzi mwa anthu odekha omwe amakhala chete komanso kusinkhasinkha, ndipo izi zimamupangitsa kukhala wanzeru komanso wolondola m'malingaliro ake, ndipo masomphenya ake ndi umboni. kuti mikhalidwe yabwino yonseyi imene ali nayo idzakhala chifukwa cha chisangalalo cha ukwati wake.
• Ponena za mkazi wokwatiwa, ngati awona masomphenyawa ndipo mwamuna wake wamakono ali yemweyo amene akum’kwatira m’kulota, ndiye kuti iye mwachiwonekere adzavutika ndi mikangano yambiri ndi banja la mwamunayo, ndipo ayenera kuchita mwanjira yocheperapo mwaukali. kuti asunge malingaliro a mwamuna wake, amene amamkonda kwambiri ndipo safuna kumukwiyitsa.
• Kuwona mkazi wokwatiwa atavala chovala ichi m’chipinda chake chogona kungasonyeze kuti akuvutika ndi kunyalanyazidwa kwa mwamuna wake, ndi kupanda ulemu kaamba ka ufulu wake walamulo, kumene kumampangitsa kumva chisoni ndi kupsinjika maganizo.

Ndalota nditavala diresi yoyera, zikutanthauza chiyani?

• Kutanthauzira kwa maloto ovala chovala choyera m'maloto kwa akazi osakwatiwa kumasonyeza mkhalidwe woyenerera wamaganizo umene mukukumana nawo masiku ano.
• Ponena za mkazi wokwatiwa, masomphenya ake amasonyeza kukhazikika kwake ndi mwamuna wake ndi kukonzanso miyoyo yawo pamodzi, ndi kuti amapereka chisamaliro chamtundu uliwonse ndi chisamaliro kwa mwamuna wake ndi ana ake.
• Masomphenya ake angasonyeze kupambana komwe kumatsagana ndi wamasomphenya. Akadakhala mtsikana, amakhoza bwino m’maphunziro ake, koma akadakhala msungwana wa msinkhu wokwatiwa, amakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe ali ndi zofotokozera za mnyamata yemwe amalota.
• Akatswiri ena otanthauzira adanena kuti mtundu wa nsalu zomwe chovalacho chimapangidwira ndi chofunikira pakutanthauzira masomphenyawo.
  Ngati chinapangidwa ndi thonje, ndiye kuti ndi chizindikiro cha chakudya chochuluka chimene wamasomphenya adzalandira.
  Ponena za silika, ndi umboni wakuti adzakhala ndi moyo wosiyana m’tsogolo umene umadziwika ndi moyo wapamwamba, atakhala zaka zambiri za moyo wake m’mavuto.

Ndinalota mlongo wanga atavala diresi laukwati, kumasulira kwake ndi chiyani?

• Ngati mlongoyo akukumana ndi nkhawa kapena mavuto m'moyo wake, ndiye kuti kumuwona kumasonyeza kuti adzachotsa nkhawazi ndikusangalala ndi kukhazikika m'maganizo posachedwapa.
• Koma ngati mlongoyo ali wosakwatiwa kapena wosudzulidwa, ndiye kuti watsala pang’ono kuloŵa gawo lina latsopano m’moyo wake, ndipo siteji imeneyo ingaimirire m’kupeza ntchito yoyenerera imene amadzizindikirira nayo, kapena siteji imeneyi ingakhale munthu woyenerera amene iyeyo angakhale naye. amalumikizana ndipo amapeza chisangalalo chake ndi iye.
• Ndipo mlongo wokwatiwa angapeze chimwemwe m’moyo wake ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo angakhale ndi pakati posachedwa.
• Ndipo ngati padali kusamvana pakati pa alongo awiriwo pazifukwa zilizonse, ndiye kuti kumuona atavala chovala chaukwati ndikuwoneka wokondwa ndi umboni wa chiyanjanitso pakati pawo.

Ndinalota mnzanga atavala diresi laukwati

• Ngati bwenzi la wamasomphenya wamkazi anali wokwatiwa, ndiye kuti kumuona mu diresi laukwati ndi umboni wakuti akusangalala ndi kukhazikika kwa chisamaliro cha mwamuna wake ndi pafupi ndi ana ake.
• Zinanenedwanso kuti masomphenyawo akunena za wamasomphenya mwiniwakeyo, ndipo chovala chomwe chikuwonekera m'maloto ake ndi umboni wa chisangalalo chomwe adzalandira posachedwa.
• Akatswiri ena adanena kuti masomphenyawa mu maloto a mkazi wosakwatiwa ndi umboni wa mphamvu ya ubale pakati pa iye ndi bwenzi lake, komanso kuti amasunga zinsinsi zake zonse ndipo amatengedwa kuti ndi mmodzi mwa mabwenzi okhulupirika kwambiri kwa iye.
• Masomphenyawa akusonyeza kuti mtsikanayo ali ndi chikhumbo china chake ndipo amafuna kuchikwaniritsa, ndipo mnzakeyo ndi amene amamuthandiza pankhaniyi.Pankhani ya kumuona mnzake atavala chovala chodetsedwa, ndiye kuti akuperekedwa. bwenzi lake, kapena kuti aulula zinsinsi zake.