Miyoyo yodzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chuma chosowa.Zovuta za moyo zimasiya chizindikiro m'mitima, ndikuzitcha nkhanza ndi nkhanza.Sakondwera ndi kulira kwa mbalame, kukongola kwamaluwa, komanso sachita chidwi ndi kukongola kwake. za nyanja ndi mafunde ake ofatsa, ndipo osadziwa chifundo, ubwenzi ndi kulolerana.
Mutu woyamba wa chikondi
Nthaŵi zonse munthu akakwera kuuzimu, chikondi chimaloŵa mwa iye yense, kukhala magwero a chikondi ndi mtendere.” Amafalitsa fungo la chikondi chake pa anthu, miyala, mitengo, ndi nyama, ndipo chimasefukira pa iwo chifundo, chilungamo, ndi chifundo.
Wolemba mabuku wina dzina lake Mustafa Lutfi al-Manfaluti anati: “Palibe chabwino m’moyo kuti munthu amakhala wopanda mtima, ndipo palibe chabwino mu mtima umene umagunda popanda chikondi.”
Mutu wokhudza chikondi
Chikondi sichimangomva chomwe anthu amamva, koma ndi zochita zomwe zimamasulira kumverera uku, malingaliro omwe amatsimikizira, ndikukulitsa mphamvu yake, ndipo pokhapokha ngati munthu akonda zomwe amachita, amakonda omwe amachita nawo, ndi omwe amacheza nawo. m'moyo wake, sangathe kupita patsogolo kwambiri pamlingo wothandiza kapena waumunthu.Ndi chikondi, chilichonse chimatheka, ndipo chilichonse chimakhala chokongola komanso chamtengo wapatali.
Kodi ubwino wa chikondi ndi wotani?
Chikondi ndi chimene chimamulumikiza munthu ndi Mbuye wake, Mtumiki Wake, ndi chipembedzo chake, kumupanga kukhala munthu wabwino amene amayesetsa kukonza zochita zake ndi zochita zake, kuti akhutitsidwe ndi Mlengi wake.
Chikondi chimagwirizanitsa mayi ndi mwana wake, kotero amapeza chitonthozo kokha mu chitonthozo chake, ndipo amamuika patsogolo pa iye mwini, thanzi lake, ndi zikhumbo zake, ndipo sawona wina aliyense wokhalapo wofunika kwambiri kuposa iye. Chikondi chimagwirizanitsa mwana ndi mayi ake, choncho amamuona kuti ndi wokongola komanso wofatsa kuposa anthu onse, chimagwirizanitsa mwana ndi bambo ake, choncho amamuona kuti ndi wamkulu kuposa anthu onse. icho monga chodabwitsa kwambiri, chowona kwambiri, ndi chozama kwambiri cha chitukuko, ziribe kanthu momwe iye amayenda kapena kuti ali kutali bwanji ndi dziko lakwawo.
Ndipo chikondi chimaphatikizapo matanthauzo onse a kulekerera, kulolerana, chifundo, chikondi, ubale, kudzipereka, mtendere ndi kukhala pamodzi.Mtima wa wokonda ndi wowala komanso wodzaza ndi ubwino, monga momwe Mustafa Sadiq Al-Rafi’i akunena: “Ulemerero ukhale kwa Inu. , O, Mulungu!Ndipo pamene amabwerera Kuvula kwake ndi kuuma kwake,choncho Chomwe chili chosangalatsa Kupeza zokongoletsa Mwadzidzidzi, kapena kuipidwa ndi masautso, Ndipo mtengowo ndi nzeru yochokera Kwa Inu yokha kwa akapolo Anu, kuwaphunzitsa moyo, chisangalalo ndi mphamvu. siziri pa dziko koma m’chinthu chimodzi ndi kutsitsimuka kwa mtima.
Mutu wosonyeza chikondi pakati pa anthu
Kufalikira kwa chikondi ndi mtendere pakati pa anthu kumafuna kufalikira kwa ubwino ndi kukoma mtima pakati pawo, pakuti chidani chimadya mphamvu zawo zambiri, ndipo chimawononga nthawi, minyewa, ndi mphamvu zimene zili zosathandiza, koma m’malo mwake zimawapweteka m’njira zambiri. .
Munthu akada, akakwiya, ndiponso akakwiya, thupi lake limatulutsa mankhwala amene amakhudza mtima, amawonjezera kuthamanga kwa magazi, ndiponso angayambitse matenda ambiri. Mu udani, machenjerero amakula, ziwembu zimafalikira, ndipo maufulu amatayika, pamene amatsegula chitseko cha zoipa.
Mutu wokhudza chikondi ndi kulolerana
Mukakonda ndi kukhululuka, mumapyola zoipa ndi zovulaza, ndipo munthu wopirira akuyembekezera zabwino zochokera kwa Mbuye wa akapolo.” Mulungu wawatamanda amene ali m’Buku lake lanzeru zakuya, kuti: “Amene amapereka m’nthawi yabwino ndi yoipa; amene atsekereza mkwiyo ndi kukhululukira anthu, ndipo Mulungu amakonda ochita zabwino.”
Tanthauzo la chikondi
Chikondi ndi malingaliro osaneneka amene amapangitsa munthu kudzikonda kuposa iye mwini, kufuna ubwino wake ndi chimwemwe chake, amachitira zinthu zabwino kwa iye, ndi kuyesetsa kumpangitsa kukhala wabwinoko.
Mitundu ya chikondi pakati pa anthu
Umodzi mwa mitundu ya chikondi ndi kukonda Mulungu ndi Mulungu wapamwambamwamba, chimene anthu amalekerera, kugwirana chanza, ndi kuchitirana zinthu limodzi mu chilungamo ndi sadaka, ndi kukonda Mtumiki potengera chiongoko chake ndi kuchita pa Sunnah yake, ndi kukonda banja ndi chikondi. abwenzi, ndi kukonda anthu onse, ndi kukonda zolengedwa za Mulungu.
Kukhudza chikondi pa munthu payekha ndi gulu
Chikondi cha munthu kwa ena chimabwereranso kwa iye ndi chikondi ndi chimwemwe, chifukwa chikondi ndi chopatsirana, ndipo chimatha kukumana ndi chikondi chonga icho, ndipo pamene mumakonda kwambiri anthu, nyama, zomera ndi zinthu, m'pamenenso mumasamalira kwambiri chisamaliro chanu. tcherani khutu pa iwo, ndipo kenako udzapeza kuti akusinthanitsa chiwongola dzanja chako ndi chiwongola dzanja, chifukwa munthu mwachibadwa amakonda amene amamukonda, ndipo nyama imamchitira chisoni. perekani chikondi ndi chisamaliro.
Ngakhale zinthu zanu zikhala bwino mukamazichita mwachikondi ndi chisamaliro, osazinyalanyaza, osaziwononga, ndipo chikondi chomwe chimakhala mu mtima chimatulutsa kuwala kwake kuchokera kumaso. Mustafa Sadiq Al-Rafi’i akunena kuti: “Chisangalalo chonse cha chikondi, ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri pa matsenga ake, n’chakuti sichimatilola kukhala m’dziko lotizinga, koma m’malo mwa munthu wokongola amene ali ndi tanthauzo lokha. za kukongola kwathu tokha, ndiyeno chikondi chimatilumikiza ife kuchokera ku kukongola kwa wokondedwa ndi kukongola kwa chilengedwe, ndipo chimatilengera ife Mu moyo wochepa uwu waumunthu, pali maora amuyaya aumulungu.Wokonda amamva kuti ali ndi mphamvu mkati mwake kudzaza chilengedwechi kuti chikwaniritsidwe.
Mutu wokhudza chikondi mu chikhristu
Chikondi mu chikhristu ndi mzimu wa chipembedzo, ndipo kudzera mwa icho munthu akhoza kumasulidwa ku zoipa zonse, ndipo kupyolera mu chikondi munthu amafika kwa Mulungu, amamudziwa ndi kumulambira ndi kulambira kwake koona, ndipo chikondi chinali lamulo lofunika kwambiri la Mulungu. Kristu kwa otsatira ake, monga momwe anawalamulira kuti azikonda anthu onse, ngakhale adani awo.
Elia Abu Madi akuti:
Moyo umene chikondi sichinawale ** ndi mzimu umene sunadziwe tanthauzo lake
Ine, mwa chikondi, ndafikira kwa ine ndekha, ndipo mwa chikondi ndazindikira Mulungu
Lankhulani za chikondi
Chikondi chenicheni ndi mlingo wofikiridwa ndi Mulungu yekha amene wam’patsa kukhwima maganizo ndi kuzindikira kwakukulu kwa moyo, chotero amadziŵa kuti palibe chilichonse m’dziko lino chimene chiyenera kudedwa, ndi kuti munthu amene amalondola chidani ndi chidani monga khalidwe ndi chikhutiro m’moyo wake. , amadzivulaza yekha kuposa kuvulaza ena.
Chikondi ndi chinthu chotanganidwa kwambiri ndi anthu kuyambira kalekale, ndipo m’nthawi ya Chisilamu chisanadze, Arabu ankakondwerera chikondi ndikuchipereka mawu ofananirako ambiri malinga ndi mlingo wake, ndipo pakati pa mawu ofanana ndi awa: chikondi, kudekha, kuyendayenda, kukhudzika, chikondi, ndi umasiye.
Ndipo panali chikondi cha namwali wopanda chilakolako, ndipo chimanenedwa kuti ndi mtundu wa "Athra", omwe olemba ndakatulo adatamandira mtundu woyera wa chikondi cha uzimu chomwe chilibe cholinga china koma chikondi.
Chisilamu chidadza ndi uthenga wa chikondi ndi mtendere pakati pa anthu, choncho Msilamu sakhulupirira mpaka atawakonda anthu ndi kuwakonda zabwino zomwe wadzikonda yekha, ndi kukonda Mlengi wake, ndipo Mulungu wapamwambamwamba wawachitira ubwino akapolo ake pobzala chikondi chenicheni. ndi chikondi m’mitima mwawo, ndipo adati m’Buku Lake lopatulika: “Ndipo kumbukirani chisomo cha Mulungu chomwe chili pa inu pamene mudali adani, kenako adasonkhanitsa mitima yanu, ndipo mwachisomo chake mudakhala abale.
Ndipo chikondi ndi ungwiro wa munthu pamlingo wapamwamba kwambiri.” Al-Jahiz akunena kuti: “Wokonda ungwiro adzizoloŵere kukonda anthu, kuwachitira chifundo, kuwachitira chifundo, kuwachitira chifundo ndi kuwachitira chifundo. Kuchokera kwa iwo, amene ali mphamvu ya maganizo, ndipo ndi mpweya uwu munthu anakhala munthu.
Ndipo chikondi chimayamba ndi kuphatikana, kenako mtima umafuna iwo amene adziphatika kwa iwo, ndi kufunafuna kuyandikira kwa iwo, ndiye munthuyo amakhala wogontha, kugwa m'chikondi, ndipo amamupatsa wokondedwa wake bata lachikondi, ndipo amamukonda iye; mpaka kumfikira nkhani ya chikondi ndi umasiye, kenako Kudzipereka ndi ubwenzi, zomwe ndi chikondi chapamwamba kwambiri.
Mutu womaliza wokhudza chikondi
Chikondi ndicho chimwemwe chenicheni, chotero khalani chonyamulira cha chimwemwe ndipo mudziphunzitse kulolera ndi kukonda zolengedwa zonse za Mulungu, ndipo mudzapeza mwa inu chitsimikiziro chimene sichimapambanitsidwa ndi chirichonse mu ukulu ndi kukongola kwake, ndipo kumwetulira koyera kudzakokedwa. pankhope panu zotuluka mu mtima mwanu wachikondi, ndipo chilengedwe chidzayankha kwa inu mogwirizana chimene anthu a mitima yoyera okha angafikire.” Iwo akusefukira dziko lino ndi chikondi, mtendere ndi kukongola.
