Chikondi nthawi zonse chakhala chinsinsi chodabwitsa chomwe anthu amalankhula m'mibadwo yonse, ndikujambula mitambo yapinki mozungulira, ndi mpweya wonunkhira wamaluwa ndikuyimira ndi mitima, ndikulemba ndakatulo ndi nyimbo mmenemo, ndikuyimba nyimbo zotsekemera kwambiri, Wolemba ndakatulo akagwa m’chikondi, amalemba ndakatulo zokongola kwambiri, ndipo nthaŵi zonse woimba akagwa m’chikondi amaimba nyimbo zabwino kwambiri.
Mutu woyamba wa chikondi
Chikondi ndi maganizo amene munthu amafuna kukhala wa munthu wina, kumuuza zakukhosi kwake, ndiponso kudalirana wina ndi mnzake kuti apirire moyo wake ndi kusangalatsana.” Monga Blaise Pascal ananenera kuti: “Moyo umakhala wosangalala ukayamba ndi chikondi. ndipo amamaliza ndi chikhumbo.”
Nkhani yosonyeza chikondi
Munthu akagwa m'chikondi, zimakhala zovuta kuti afotokoze maganizo ake, ngakhale kuti zimabwera patsogolo pa mitu ya nyimbo zomwe anthu akhala akuyimba kwa zaka zambiri, ndipo ngakhale sayansi imapeza kumverera kwamtunduwu ndipo kumafunikira zambiri. kufufuza ndi maphunziro kuti afufuze kuya kwake.
Amuna kapena akazi akayamba kukondana, amasintha kwambiri m'maganizo ndi m'thupi, ndipo chikondi chimayamba kukopeka ndi mnzake, nthawi yamatsenga pomwe chilichonse chimayamba. zomwe zimagwira ntchito yofunikira m'makhalidwe a munthu kwa yemwe amamukonda, ndipo mtundu uwu wa pawiri umakhala ndi zotsatira zofanana ndi amphetamines, chifukwa zimapangitsa munthu kukhala watcheru ndi wokondwa, ndi zilakolako za kugwirizana.
Chikondi mu Islam
Mulungu, amene analenga munthu ndi malingaliro onse amene amagwira ntchito mwa iye monga chikondi, chidani, mkwiyo, chikhutiro, chisoni ndi chisangalalo, amadziwa zimene zili mwa iye, ndipo safuna kuti atsekereze malingaliro ake, koma amawongolera ndi kuwongolera. Mchitidwe wosadzivulaza iye mwini kapena ena, ndipo umaphatikizapo malingaliro achikondi.
Chikondi chapamwamba chimene chimamukweza munthu, chimamupangitsa kukhala wabwino ndi wokongola kwambiri, chimapangitsa moyo womuzungulira kukhala wokoma, ndi kumupangitsa kukhala wofunitsitsa kugwira ntchito, kuyesetsa kumanga nthaka monga momwe Mulungu adamlengera, ndi chikondi chofunika ndi chopanda chilema, ndipo munthu amakonda Mbuye wake ndipo Amamukonda Mneneri wake monga idadzera mu Hadith yolemekezeka yakuti: “Palibe amene angakhulupirire mwa inu mpaka ine ndikhale wokondeka kwa iye kuposa mwana wake, bambo ake ndi anthu onse.”
Ndipo Mtumiki (madalitso ndi mtendere zikhale naye) adanena za chikondi cha pakati pa akazi ndi akazi: “Asamuda mwamuna wokhulupirira mkazi.
Chimodzimodzinso Chisilamu chapanga chikondi pakati pa anthu ndi chikhulupiriro chonse, monga momwe adanenera Mtumiki wa Allah (Swalla Allaahu ‘alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam) kuti: “Sakhulupirire aliyense mwa inu kufikira atakonda m’bale wake zimene wadzikonda yekha. .” Adatinso: “Simudzalowa ku Paradiso mpaka mutakhulupirira, ndipo simudzakhulupirira kufikira mutakondana wina ndi mnzake. Lalitsani mtendere pakati panu. Ndipo anati: “Ngati munthu akonda m’bale wake, amuuze kuti amamukonda.
Kodi njira zosonyezera chikondi ndi ziti?
Chikondi chili ndi njira zambiri zosonyezera kuti chilipo, chimalimbitsa maunansi a anthu, ndiponso chimafalitsira chikondi, kulolerana ndi ubale.
Zina mwa njira zimenezi ndi mawu abwino, amene Mulungu Wamphamvuyonse anawafanizira ndi mtengo wabwino wokhala ndi mizu yotalikirapo, umene umabala zipatso mu ubwino ndi kukula, ndi ntchito zimene zimathandiza ena kukwaniritsa zosoŵa zawo, ndiponso mphatso ndi imodzi mwa njira zopezera zosowa zawo. kusonyeza chikondi komanso kugawana zakukhosi ndi zochita.
Kodi lingaliro la chikondi kwa amuna ndi akazi ndi chiyani?
Lingaliro la chikondi limasiyana pakati pa munthu ndi wina, mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Mkazi amakonda kukhazikika ndikukhazikitsa nyumba chifukwa cha chikondi, ndipo amafuna kukwaniritsa ntchito yake yayikulu m'moyo, yomwe ndi umayi, pomwe palibe chikondi chomwe chilipo choposa chikondi cha mayi kwa wobadwa kumene, pomwe mwamuna amafunafuna. malingalirowa kuti apeze chitonthozo ndi kukwaniritsa zosowa zina.
chikondi ndi chiyani?
Ndiko kumangika mtima kwa anthu kapena zinthu, ndipo ndi mtundu wa ubwenzi umene umapangitsa munthu kufuna kukhala pafupi ndi amene amawakonda ndi kufuna kumkondweretsa, ndi kumpatsa mikhalidwe yokongola ndi yodabwitsa kwambiri.
Ali Tantawi akuti: “Ngati mukufuna kulawa zosangalatsa zokongola kwambiri padziko lapansi pano, ndi chisangalalo chokoma cha mitima, ndiye perekani chikondi monga momwe mumaperekera ndalama.
Tanthauzo la chikondi mu psychology
Psychology imaona kuti chikondi ndi mphamvu ya mkati ndi yamaganizo mkati mwa dongosolo la ubongo lomwe likufuna kupeza malingaliro a mphotho. Maphwando awiriwa akayamba kuyandikirana, amakumana ndi zomwe zimadziwika kuti chikondi.
mitundu ya chikondi
Pali chikondi chaumulungu, chimene munthu amayandikira kwa Mbuye wake, ndi kumva kuwala ndi kukhazikika mu malingaliro osefukirawa, ndipo pali chikondi kwa banja, kukonda abwenzi, chikondi chachikondi, ndi chikondi chomwe chimakhala chikhalidwe cha munthu ndi kukonda onse. za zolengedwa za Mulungu, ndipo palinso kudzikonda, ndipo munthu aliyense ayenera kudzibvomereza yekha, Koma pamene sakonda kalikonse kalikonse koma iye mwini, amakhala wankhalwe ndi wosapiririka.
Ndakatulo ya chikondi
Ali Aljarem akuti:
Ndipo chikondi ndi maloto osangalatsa a unyamata ** Ndi masiku abwino bwanji ndi maloto!
Ndipo chikondi chimatuluka mu zonona, ndikuchigwedeza ** kotero chimafika ku lupanga kapena kutsanulira mitambo
Ndipo chikondi ndi ndakatulo ya mzimu, ngati uliyimba ** Kukhalapo kuli chete, ndipo sindigogoda moonetsera.
O, chikondi chachuluka bwanji ndi chisangalalo ** Chisoni, kusaleza mtima ndi mkwiyo zidasungunuka
Linali phesi lomwe silinafikire pakamwa pake ** kotero linakhala zingwe zochititsa manyazi za pakamwa.
Ahmed Shawky adati:
Ndipo chikondi sichina koma kumvera ndi kupyola malire* ngakhale atachulukitsa kufotokoza kwake ndi matanthauzo ake
Ndipo diso liri pa diso lokumana* ndipo ngati asiyanitsa zifukwa zake ndi zifukwa zake
Mutu wosonyeza chikondi ndi chikondi
Munthu akagwa m'chikondi, amawona chirichonse ndi maso osiyana, kotero zonse mwadzidzidzi zimakhala zokongola, zowawa zonse ndi zovuta za moyo zimakhala zolephereka, ndipo zolinga zonse zimakhala zotheka, ngakhale kukhudza nyenyezi.
Mutu wa chikondi ndi kupembedza
Chikondi ndi kupembedza zili ndi mbali zitatu, ubwenzi, chilakolako, ndi kudzipereka.Ubwenzi umatsimikizira kuyandikana, kulankhulana, ndi kugwirizana kwa onse awiri.Kukhudzika kumapangitsa kuti ubale ukhale wamoyo komanso chikhumbo cha kukula ndi kupitiriza ndi cholinga kwa onse awiri.Kudzipereka kumatsimikizira ubale wautali ndipo umabala zotsatira za ubalewu wa maudindo ogwirizana.
Kambiranani za chikondi
Chikondi sichimangotengeka maganizo, koma chikhumbo chofuna kukhalira limodzi pakati pa mbali ziwiri, aliyense akugwira ntchito kuti athandize mnzake, kumusangalatsa, kumvetsetsa zosowa zake, ndi maganizo ake, ndipo amafuna kuti onse awiri anyalanyaze zomwe zingawononge ubalewo. kapena kuyambitsa kuphulika kwake.
Mutu wachikondi
Asanayambe kupangidwa kwa intaneti ndi njira zamakono zolankhulirana, chikondi chinali ndi mawonekedwe ena, monga chinsinsi ndi mtunda zinapatsa chithumwa chapadera, ndipo chikondi chinatenga mbali yaikulu ya malingaliro aumunthu, maloto, ndi zolinga kwa nthawi yaitali, kotero kuti. panali sukulu ya ndakatulo yachikondi, yofunika kwambiri yomwe inali wolemba ndakatulo Khalil Mutran, ndipo magulu adakhazikitsidwa Amaphatikizapo ndakatulo zofunika kwambiri zachikondi kumayambiriro kwa zaka za zana la makumi awiri, kuphatikizapo gulu la Apollo, gulu la Diwan, ndi Alakatuli akunja.
Romanticism imakhalanso ndi sukulu yake mu luso la pulasitiki, ndipo zaka zake zagolide zinali kumapeto kwa zaka za zana la khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu ndi chiyambi cha zaka za zana la khumi ndi zisanu ndi zinayi, ndipo anthu ake otchuka kwambiri anali wojambula Yogis de la Croix, ndi Jarico, omwe anali Achifalansa.
Mutu wokhudza chikondi chenicheni
Kuona mtima ndi maziko amene ubwenzi uliwonse wokongola, wopambana, woyela ungamangidwepo, ndipo popanda kutero, unansi sungathe kukula ndi kuyenda bwino. Chikondi choyera ndi kukayika sizikumana, chifukwa khomo lomwe amalowamo Chikaiko limatulutsa chikondi.
Mutu womaliza wokhudza chikondi
Moyo wopanda chikondi ndi moyo wowuma, wopanda tanthauzo ndi chilimbikitso, popeza umapereka kukongola ndi kukongola kwa chilichonse m'moyo malinga ndi anthu ndi zinthu, ndipo popanda moyo sungathe kuyenda bwino. chifukwa cha mgwirizano, kuthandizira, Ndi chithandizo, ndi kutengapo mbali, chirichonse chomwe chimamangidwa pa chikondi chowona mtima chimakhalitsa ndipo chimayenda bwino.
